My Thoughts and Tips on How to UN-Learn Toxic Body Image Messages
Advertising relentlessly promotes unrealistic body ideals, leaving many feeling inadequate. This constant barrage, through various media, conditions us to strive for unattainable standards of beauty, youth, and physique. The sheer volume of daily ads—estimates range from 4,000 to 10,000 for the average American—means these messages subtly, yet powerfully, influence our self-perception and daily decisions.
Here are some gentle reminders letting you know, despite what society tells you...
You don’t HAVE TO lose weight, diet, put on makeup, to be deemed beautiful.
Self-worth does NOT come from a dress size or weight.
It’s ok to not feel positive about your body all the time. We ALL have good days and bad.
Learn to honor signals telling you when to eat, rest, move, etc.
Bodies are NOT WRONG or unattractive for having natural things such as stretch marks, spider veins & cellulite.
Where your body wants to be might be different from where you think it should be.
Take away: WE ALL have amazing things to offer this world & to each other that have absolutely NOTHING to do with our bodies or appearance. The diet culture and beauty industry profits off of our insecurities. It’s a BUSINESS just like any other and needs to drive revenue in order to be successful.
The reality is we are so much more than our bodies, dress size, weight, etc.
Here’s a list of non-appearance related compliments we can give to one another instead:
Your laugh is contagious
You light up the room
You’re so intelligent
You inspire me
I love how passionate you are
You’re an incredible friend
You’re making a difference
You’re a great sister/brother/mother/father
You’re one of the bravest people I know
You make me feel like I can be myself
You have such a great perspective
You’re such a good listener
You make me feel safe